Circumstances !!

Few nights back we all were having a discussion about life . What , When why all questions asked . What we want to achieve in life , How is it going to happen ? when will it take place ? To many serious questions at one time 
But at one step we came across circumstances . Circumstances that had prevented us from achieving our goals till now , circumstances that will prevent us further later in life .
But being a person of my own will I was totally against this. I fail to agree to the fact that circumstances play a role in your life ,in your career . according to me its more about choices you make and how stern you are about your choices . circumstances arise when you are not that sure about what you want to do. As many times in life you will have to make choices leaving aside your feelings , Your relations , even your life to achieve what you want and once you fail to do so you rationalize it by saying that circumstances were not right so you were not able to do this or do that though the reality of situation is that you become week towards the opposition you got while making that choice which might have altered your life all together.
Whatever happens to you and your life no one else but you yourself are responsible for it. No one but you are the one who should decide for yourself leaving aside all the things that effect you. This can only happen when you are committed to your goal more then yourself , When all that you think about is that goal itself. You dream about it even with open eyes. If that’s the passion you have for anything you will leave no stone unturned to achieve it and there will be no so called circumstances that will effect that PATH.
So how much going gets tough just KEEP WALKING !!!